Phil, I went through this exact situation this last week. I ordered a replacement basket strainer for a Vetus 330 strainer. Used the part number THEIR website stated was the correct fit for my model. I received it, it's about 1/3rd the size of the correct one!
I contacted them about it, once on the satisfaction survey, twice to customer support . . . Crickets. I had the ME toilet in the cart waiting to see how the other situation resolved itself . . . . which it didn't. So I deleted it from my cart and went elsewhere. I got an automated e-mail stating that my order didn't complete, and to click to complete the order . . . Yeah, just wait for it, I'll get back to you . . .
I ended up getting the model # of the exact model I wanted off the Raritan website. I called Marine Parts Source on the advice of Comodave, gave them the Model # from Raritan's site: 230HF01201. They verified it had all the features we wanted and I ordered it on Monday, the 23rd. They build to order, so it will take a few days. I received the confirmation of the order immediately. $878.42, shipping included, no sales tax (saved 10%). We'll see how they perform, but I'm pretty confidant they'll do okay.
Hodges is off my list of marine parts providers.
This is the third order I'd purchased from there.
The 1st time was okay, although shipping took 3x as long as they promised.
The 2nd order was a ***t show, never arrived, but I'm not positive it was Hodges fault, but they balked on the refund, so I just disputed it with my CC company for non-arrival and ordered elsewhere.
This last tiime was their third strike, and now they're OUT!
Oh, and on the ME toilet, Peggy Hall (The Head Mistress) recommends that you don't buy the 4 button "Smart Controller" as it has a circuit board, which could fail. She recommends the 3 button multi-function panel. It does pretty much the same thing, but is strictly mechanical. Also costs less!