I too would seek out 2205.
The sad thing is that too the lower mainland of BC had lots of quality fabrication shops and exotic metal dealers with duplex stainless and 6% moly on the shelf. With the downtown in pulp and paper, it's all gone.
I looked through my old contacts and couldn't find any still existing.
Thanks for the suggestions. 2205 is "Duplex" stainless steel and it (and its superior mate "Super Duplex") are commonly used for subsea equipment in the offshore oilfields where I used to work.
Trouble is that it is super expensive! (It is also stronger than 304 and 316, but I don't need the extra strength.)
Stepping back to look at the big picture, the choices are (in rising order of cost): carbon steel, 304SS, 316SS, Duplex, Superduplex, Inconel, Monel, Unobtanium, etc, etc
I am retired and this whole project is on a budget. For me, thicker wall carbon steel is definitely an option and would certsainly last out my boating career (I am going on 77), but I would feel better using a common stainless (304 or 316).
I am in touch with HDI Marine (thanks, Tired Trawler for the tip) and they have some interesting options. They are apparently planning to produce a mixing elcow for the John Deere starting next year, but I don't know if it will fit my boat. Another option is to purchase just the straight mixer from HDI and weld it to an elbow and my old flange. Trouble is that they do not make a model that has 3"inlet and 3"outlet (as presently in my boat). So I would have to go 3"inlet, 4"outlet, 4x3 reducer which would make for a lot more connections and a "less clean" solution.