It will work with out of phase 30A in an old marina but not with newer marina meeting current codes... big difference.I believe the statement that the reverse Y will "never" work is not quite true. I carry one 50' 30 amp cord along with a smart reverse Y and have been able to get both legs to work using 2 different pedestals. I assume this is because it's using different neutrals. I have also come across a few marinas that understand the problem and have each pedestal wired with different legs on each side so the smart Y will work here also. I realize this is a bit cumbersome and not always possible but it has allowed us to run the AC in marinas with gfci and 30 amp only.
I'm no electrician so I'm not really sure how the magic works but it does.
How could the Y adjust /;split the amps returning on the single ( 50A 125/250V) leg to the 2 30A 125V legs and match exactly the amps delivered from that recepticle? Possibly if everything is off and there is zero amps being drawn??? but once a load is applied the 125V hot and neutral will be unbalanced.
I have no interest in continuing any disagreement only trying to assist the OP answer his question. Only / best? Way it to find a friend / acquaintance with a 50A 125/250V pedestal and connect directly from pedestal to boat with a 50A cord while he is out of his slip... or haveva marina allow you to try connecting with a 50A cord.