All good points and I agree. I bought my boat 3 years ago with wet batteries. I then replaced them with AGMs and no trouble so far.
My charger was OEM 2001 so no AGM profile. It is a Charles 80 amp. I called Odyssey(batter maker) and asked them if the Lead Acid setting would be sufficient. They said that it would be fine. The biggest issue was that AGMs desulfate by a rapid charge rate and the LA setting is a little bit slow. Anyway, they said it was a nominal(theoretical) issue and shouldn't worry about it.
There is a good thread on here that I started when I was shopping batteries. I will see if I can dig it up.
Our 2002 OEM charger, ditto, I called Odyssey, ditto... and so now our oldest bank of Odyssey G31 AGMs (PC-2150s) have been through 10 seasons, and voltage still meters pretty good, and the low self-discharge rate during winter lay-up on the hard (although we don't often do that) is still as advertised.
Our battery set-up is two dual-purpose G31 banks (~300 Ah, each bank) plus separate genset battery. Each main bank starts one engine, runs approx. half the house (including on fridge on each), and runs approx. half the bridge (electrics on one bank, electronics on the other). Two levels of starting back-up: a parallel switch at the helm for starting an engine using both main battery banks simultaneously, and the separate genset battery and 3-bank charger.
It's not impossible to check fluids, but it's a pain in the neck... exacerbated by the OEM cabling which obscured some of the caps on the original flooded batteries. I chose to treat myself to slightly less periodic maintenance, and to reduced off-gassing. All good, so far.
But... that original (starboard) bank is also powering all our electronics, which matters when we're trolling on only the port engine or for overnight anchoring with some of the components still on... and I'd also like to add an inverter for some light duty... but there's only space for either three G31s (~300 Ah) or four 6V golf cart batteries (~440 Ah).
G31 Carbon Foam Firefly batteries look good especially because of their PSOC capabilities, but in our case I think 440 Ah trumps 300 Ah... and Bruce Schwab has only been able to say they've taken the (many?) requests for 6V GC versions under advisement. I suspect that means they're at capacity, not really able to increase production...
So our plan is to probably switch that one particular bank to probably Lifeline 6V AGMs whenever the time comes. This after analysis of our Cummins starting requirements (minimum CCA/MCA specs) and discussion with Lifeline, both confirming viability.
Adding an inverter/charger on that one bank for some house functions would just be gravy.
But I'm guessing 6V Carbon Foam would be even better for our particular purposes, assuming willingness to bite the cost bullet.
I haven't been enthused about LiFePO yet, partly because of initial cost but mostly because of the BMS complexity that also apparently becomes required to manage such a system.
-Chris