Wifey B: You make the most of where you are.
When we lived on the lake, that was our boating world and we loved it. We didn't know anything more. If I was on the Pacific Coast, I'd find great boating. I'd take advantage of San Diego, Los Angeles, and San Francisco and all the large small towns in between (large because they are but small compared to the big 3).
Just like I'd make the most of the Great Lakes if that's where I was. I'd take every possible boating moment and enjoy what was there.
If I lived in the NE, I'd dislike the shorter season, but I'd find the incredible areas for boating and take advantage of the season.
Don't compare the west coast to the east or the NE to the SE, just love where you are and take advantage of it. It's like going to Hollywood on the west coast. Well, we live near Hollywood, FL but it's not the same. If I moved to the west coast I'd sure miss the Bahamas and the Caribbean, but I'd savor what is there.