Watches
The Watches I had planned and what actually happened turned out totally different.
Months ago, I started looking for crew. I thought 4 people total, including me would be idea. I had a number of potential crew contact me, but the closer we got to summer, these potential crew started to disappear like smoke on a windy day.
While I was taking my Captains/Master class in SC in April, during the few boring parts (probably about wx) I wrote out a pretty good watch schedule for three people.
A number of new people expressed interest, but...
Finally in early June, Julie decided to come on the beginning of the trip and not the second part as we had been planning.
And i understood that while many liked the idea of this adventure, few were willing to do it.
And re=reading all the sailboat books about ocean passages, if the owner was couple, then they did it as two, but is solo, it was usually three and many times the three were not compatible.
So, J and I decided that it was going to be the two of us.
At first, we were going to try three hour watches, that had worked well for me with john when we went south last November.
But after one day, it was obvious that some people need more than three hours sleep at any one time.
We also realized that Julie did not mind staying up late and I always was up early, so we fell into a routine of her doing the evening from 20:00 to 02:00 and I did 02:00 until Julie woke up, at 9 or 10.
then we'd pretty much be in the pilot house together, with a na or two, until I went to bed at 20:00. I would still wake up by 23:00 and look around, but after a few days I just forced myself to stay in bed. I also found that having 6 hours sleep was much better for me than two 3 hour sessions.
Now, one caveat, we didn't make anyone put toothpicks on their eyelids to keep them up. An ocean passage is about a thousand times easier than the ICW. Having AIS send/receive was the icing on the cake. Until this passage, every time we had a long overnight to do, if I saw one ship, it was the one ship I had to change course as we were on an very close, less than 1/4 mile intercept.
With AIS, every night we saw 1 to 2 ships and they always changed course before the 5 mile mark. I think their being able to see me, made their life much easier.
Lastly, the Les Weatheritt, "Your First Atlantic Crossing" and his follow on books, extremely helpful, with a philosophy very similar to Julie and me. He also gave a range of options, some extreme, for example, after spending pages on crew watches and schedules, and what works best or not, he ends with, "then there was also an older cruising couple that every evening had cocktails and then would retreat to bed together"
The point is we had to be flexible.