So, after all this discussion it comes down to a simple high resistance connection, coupled with a high current draw.
Thats the exact same problem the standard NEMA connectors have.
Thats the same risk that ANY connector has.
I'm going to repeat myself here, but alas nobody is going to listen.
If you want to reduce the risk of a fire...
LIMIT YOUR LOADS. Just because its a 30 amp shore power setup does not mean that you can draw power up to where the breaker on the shore power pedestal trips.
You know what I did at my harbor?
I paid, out of my own pocket to have the harbor's electrical contractor install a 50 amp outlet at my slip last fall. Over $1300 I paid.
How did I get them to do it???
I wrote a e-mail to the harbormaster indicating that I was afraid of fire and wanted to take any steps I could to mitigate that risk. With an e-mail like that in hand, the harbormaster had little choice but to allow the installation.