Shrew, if you're from NH why did you choose RI vs Ma for your boating area?
LOL!!! I get this question all the time!! ("Doesn't NH have an ocean too"?)
I had a friend who lived and boated in the area, and had introduced me to the area. We loved it and the idea of boating with a close friend seemed appealing.
We live over an hour inland, however the drive on a Friday night to get anywhere on the North shore of Boston, is long. The Friday night commute, along with every trying to get to Maine, NH or home makes for a ton of traffic everywhere. South shore is contending with Cape Cod traffic. Basically my friday night drive would have been 1 hr 15 to 3 hours depending on where I chose to go. It's 2 hours to get here and it is against traffic. The drive was relatively the same. Even if it's a little further, what is 45 minutes on a Friday night or a Sunday night??
New Hampshire and Maine if very rocky, and there is a lot more fog. Less opportunities to get out and less places to anchor.
Portsmouth or North shore has limited destinations (as compared to this area). When the fog lifts, once outside of Portsmouth Harbor, there are few places to go, where I can easily get back by Sunday.
Where I am, I can get to Newport, Block Island, Montauk, Greenport, Shelter Island, Sag Harbor, Mystic, in a short period of time.
There are tons of sandy anchorages in this area.
The boating is generally better. Sandy bottoms, sandy beaches, and a 3 foot tide.
The marinas are generally cheaper.
Now we stay because over the years we've built up a huge group of friends. No matter where we go we run into boating friends we know. Our social life stronger down here than it was back at home.
Oddly enough, I haven't spoken with my friend who lured us down here to begin with in over 5 years. (His wife turned out to be.......not a lot of fun