i have no clue how old are the 3 racors on my boat
all 3 are obsolete 500FG where the bracket work as the bowl ring.
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If you chose to believe Racor, according to the Part No. list you provided earlier, yours are made after Feb. 1996 as they appear to have a 1 1/4" square boss (a thickening of the body) at the fuel ports. Measure it to be sure.
That also means that P/N. RK15081 (the hex headed fasteners that you already bought) are the correct fasteners.
If the reason you want to remove the existing fasteners is a need to rebuild or reseal the filter housing, then take the thing apart so you can have a good look at the condition of the threaded bores and recondition them if required to accept the new fasteners.
As you have a diagram and some kind of assembly instructions, this should not be hard to do at all.
Cutting a slot in or welding a new head on the existing damaged fasteners is about the last thing I would do.
Finally, and as a rule of thumb, using carbon steel materials, the threaded length required to develop a full strength connection is equal to the bolt diameter. Ever notice that a standard nut is the same thickness as the bolt diameter?
In the case of a #10-24 steel fastener that would mean an engagement of 0.190" or about 5 threads develops full capacity.
A stainless steel fastener into aluminum, (depending on the alloy) means roughly double the engagement length, which is why these fasteners are 7/8" long.
Prudent connection design always allows to achieve full capacity even though you may not torque it up that high. A layman using only 3 threads runs a high risk of pulling the threads out of the filter body.