Gotcha, and agreed.
I don't want to take over here, but want to present one more thought experiment using your specific case. Think it's at the heart of Seevee's question.
If you wanted to fully optimize for operation at 17 knots and pledged never to try to exceed that, what would the optimum rpm be? Basically you can adjust the gear ratio through prop changes to lock into that optimum rpm.
Here's the range I think you have. You can gear down (underprop) to the point at which you're running at 2600 rpm, which is the maximum spec for continuous operation. Or you can gear up such that the load is still within the motor's power curve, but closer to the limit. Let's call that 2100 rpm.
Where is the 'sweet spot'? Are there tradeoffs in motor longevity or fuel consumption? Going for 2100 introduces risks. An extra load or adverse conditions might do harm. Your 2300 seems very safe from that perspective. So let's limit the practical target range to 2300 - 2600. Why would 2300 be any better than 2600? Is is possible that 2600 might in fact be better in terms of motor health, or even fuel consumption? Is there any downside apart from noise? Maybe a true expert can answer.
I'll shut up now