Hi Ruth - I responded to this same item on CruisersForum. Thought I would cut/paste here too for others.
See below - and good luck! Peter
1. Definitely suggest you consider Trawler Fest if you haven't already. They do not have a
liveaboard training, but is a good indepth experience where you can customize your experience via different seminars.
2. Chartering. Most of the
charter companies will assign a
captain for you for as long as you want. After a day or two, chances are you will be comfortable enough to
head off on your own without the
captain. Prime trawler-charter grounds are in PNW - Anacortes WA. But there is also a few others around the country such as Southwest
Florida charters, I believe out of Ft Myers on the
Gulf coast (I know nothing of them, so not an endorsement).
3. Crewed
Charter. Nordhavn lists several boats that are crewed charters, though there are others too.
https://nordhavn.com/resources/charters/
4. Sea Sense. Operated by a pair of captains (both women), Sea Sense has been teaching people beginning
boating skills for 20+ years. They know how to teach you what you need to know. So an option would be to charter a
boat and hire one/both of their captains to fly to you. Or ask about their next charter/training course - either take berths on that, or ask about extending their charter for an extra few days for you to have private instruction. They really are the best in the business. Also, if you are the typical cruising couple where the man has the passion and the woman is a bit luke-warm, they do all-women courses that are simply superb at building confidence.