Scott,
You always give advise based on good knowledge and experience. Not everyone has the equivalent. At the basic level, I do not totally disagree with you (most times). However, I most often error on the side of safety when giving advice, as I have too often seen tragic examples where "common sense" was not commonly used or lapses of judgement had occurred!!!
That is why we have things like "standards, regulations, rules, etc." that are always aimed at trying to protect people (mostly from themselves) and to achieve this, are often aimed at the lowest common denominator. When responding to these topics, I answer based on these safety standards because that is the prudent thing to do, especially since I do not know the skills, knowledge, and abilities of the (all) people reading the advice.
You are in fact correct, people work with and around gas safely (no bad results) all of the time. However, when the standards are not followed, occasionally bad things can result when things go wrong or steps are missed.
For example, I looked at a boat (when shopping) that had survived for a long time where the owner stored a plastic gas can and a spare 20 lb. propane bottle in an enclosed (no drain) lazarette below the cockpit floor. Also in this laz, was 2 lead acid batteries, a battery charger, and the motor for the electric stern thruster. I don't think anyone would suggest this was a "good practise", yet he "got away with it", and apparently did not know any better!
I guess we have slightly different viewpoints on these things