Keep hearing Trac make the best stabilization and to stay away from Wesmar. Also fins are better than fish as you just push a button with no need to deploy or take them in . Also that gyros are great for coastal but potentially dangerous offshore and magnus effect the reverse as they stick out so far.
Is this all hearsay?
Would like to hear about your experience with your stabilization.
I am late to this party but have been thinking about this thread for awhile.
In addition, since the original post sought comments born of experience, I am not qualified as such since my current boats are stabilized by hull and ballast design criteria but not active or passive appendages. I have no experience.
Nonetheless, a couple of thoughts about the dangers of these appendages under 'ocean' conditions.
I think of active or passive stabilizing devices as serving needs of comfort and not so much safety in adverse sea states. That safety, I think, must be design criteria inherent in the ship itself in terms of scantlings and stability parameters.
If true, then the concern of a fin or a gyro tearing a hole in a hull because of the forces necessary to offset heel, is not well found. The hull itself should already be equipped to handle those forces (assuming proper attachment of the fin or gyro) in terms of scantlings. In addition, a boat with good stability characteristics has the ability to contribute to the righting moment by design as the ship heels in response to the action of the sea such that not all of the righting force is supplied by the fin or gyro.
Now, putting a large fin or a Seakeeper 1200 on a vessel without the scantlings and built in stability characteristics to handle it would likely be a hazard both inshore and offshore.
If you are going to sea, you best be in a sea boat, stabilized or not.