When I finally figured out how my inverter and AC panel are wired, I came to like it.
There are three circuit breakers on the main panel which are fed from a SPDT switch. One side comes from the inverter, the other from the main AC breaker. Of course the inverter itself is fed from a different breaker in the panel.
I can set the inverter on automatic, and the switch to "inverter", and those three circuits are fed from the AC main, through the inverter. If shore power is dropped, the inverter switches over and powers those three. When power comes back, they're back to sucking shore power.
The three breakers are (1) all the stbd outlets, (2) all the port outlets, and (3) the refrigerator.
I've tried plugging in a 1500W heater to one of the outlets and disconnecting shore power, and it just keeps chugging. It wouldn't last long before draining the house bank, but it proves the system works.
I'd need to run the noisemaker for A/C and any serious cooking (electric stove only), but I can use the microwave for a few minutes.
The weak link is the SPDT switch. It's rated for 20A but it's only a little toggle switch. We almost melted it in February running two electric heaters. I'm looking for a more robust one that still looks OK in the panel. Now that it's warmer out we should be OK until I get the A/C with reverse cycle heat hooked up, and that's on its own 30A shorepower circuit.