Trawler people are notoriously slow to buy. They are very deliberate and detailed in their requirements as opposed to the typical impulse buyer. They can take years to make a decision. There are good brokers right here on TF that understand that, and realize that lime today may pay off in the future. There are also other good brokers out there. Some will keep you in their follow up for years.
I am also a real estate developer of condos, townhomes, planned mixed use developments, and light commercial projects. When I was doing my own marketing, I would usually hold an open house on Sunday afternoons. It didn't take long to figure out that I was the entertainment for many people. Their hobby was touring open houses and asking questions. I knew many by name. Others were looking for ideas for their homes or ones they were building. They were not shy about asking where did you get this, what is the number of this paint color, or could you give us the plans to this home. Of course I had to be pleasant to everyone, but soon learned to identify those that were serious. Some would even try to impress me with we have money. We can buy what we want. I don't remember selling anything to any of those.
First of all a lady, 5 children, and a grandmother is not the usual prospect that walks in a brokers office. The idea of having your banker write a letter of introduction telling the business relationship and your qualifications to buy could help. Also, be honest and tell where you are in the process. Enlisting a buyers broker is a good idea, but stay faithful to that broker. Let the broker lead the way. Explain that it could take some time to find what you want, but if he or she is willing you are.
You have received good advice and intentions from the group at TF. There are plenty of answers suggested. Sift through those, and find the ones that fit your situation and personality.
Oh yeah, if went to some of the brokerages on 17th Street in Fort Lauderdale looking for a superyacht, I would be laughed out of the office. I don't have that kind of financial statement, and few do. However, they recognize who is a prospect, or they don't sell those superyachts.