Naysayers. .
20 years ago everyone thought I was delusional sitting in my run down shack on 6 acres in the mountains and subscribing to a yacht magazine.
Just a dreamer.
Now, those same people that would casually say ‘follow your dreams’ (but really don’t mean it) are the ones sitting back ‘Monday Morning Quarterbacking’’ every move I make.
In the past two years I have paid off over $40k of debt, somewhat convinced my grown kids they have to start living and letting my wife and I do the same, bought a $25k 36’ that will need much work (subjective), and I am one step closer to the dream I have had for over thirty years.
I am standing at the threshold of actually realizing that dream. There is absolutely no way I will allow those same people to cause me to lose focus.
I used to believe that I was not very successful in life. Even now, as I am sitting on the deck of my 36’ trawler and under 55 years old, retired, money to live on, relatively good health, and sipping on a tasty Hurricane watching the sun set, I ponder.
Should I reconsider my position? Maybe I should ask the naysayers who will be busting their humps at their 9-5 in the morning.
I will just be choosing what lure to tie on the pole before I get started with my new full time job working on my beautiful ‘hole in the water’, as they all seem to like to refer to it.
I must have done it all wrong.
Or maybe they were wrong.
I can only wish you the best. If you can visualize it, you can do it. It might cost you more but in the end, you will have done it your way.
Albeit possibly the stupid way (as in my case) but none the less, you will make Frank Sinatra proud.
You didn't ask the forum for advice. The OP did so. Various members have offered advice and it comes with many different viewpoints, exactly what the OP needs to then make his own choices.